🔔 Subscribe for more great content: null ▶️ Recommended for you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ExaMJRg5xks Today, we're excited to chat with Matthew Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and renowned relationship coach. In this conversation we’ll dive into the secrets of all successful relationships. In this episode Matthew shares his invaluable insights on the key elements that constitute successful relationships. He emphasizes the importance of giving up certain types of attention to attract what you truly need, the distinction between impressing and connecting, and the crucial role of authenticity in forming genuine connections. Get Matthew's book, "Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)": https://amzn.to/3PpQ3LO Listen to this episode on the go! 🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-school-of-greatness/id596047499 🟢 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/07GQhOZboEZOE1ysnFLipT?si=a03d916bade54d4f For more info about this episode, go to https://lewishowes.com/1590 📙 get my NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLING book "The Greatness Mindset" today! https://lewishowes.com/gmyo 📤 sign up for my FREE newsletter https://lewishowes.com/greatnessdelivered Follow Lewis! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewishowes/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lewis Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lewishowes/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/LewisHowes 💻 Website: http://lewishowes.com/ 📲 For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960 Get More Greatness! Greatness Clips: null Spanish: null Portuguese: null Lewis Howes Shorts: null 0:00 Intro 00:04:31 - Building Yourself Up for Attraction 00:09:43 - The Difference between Impressing and Connecting 00:14:49 - Connecting through vulnerability in relationships 00:19:26 - The Importance of Vulnerability in Connecting 00:24:04 - Being Vulnerable and Connecting on a Date 00:28:36 - The Turnoff of Being "Too Nice" 00:33:13 - Understanding relational patterns 00:38:21 - Trauma Bonding and Inconsistent Love 00:43:18 - Attracting Toxic and Selfish People 00:47:45 - Finding Authenticity in Relationships 00:52:46 - Being Seen and Accepted in a Relationship 00:58:04 - Practice for Hard Conversations 01:02:57 - Meeting Each Other's Needs 01:07:47 - Expectations and Frustrations in Relationships 01:12:26 - Choosing a Partner with an Abundance of Choices 01:17:26 - Signs of a Deceptive Personality 01:22:22 - Finding Familiarity in a Relationship 01:27:41 - Rewiring Your Brain for Happiness 01:32:33 - Building a Great Relationship by Settling 01:37:32 - Relationships and Personal Growth 01:42:00 - Self-Compassion and Love for Life 01:47:04 - Self-compassion and sharing vulnerability 01:52:05 - "Love Life Book" Promotion #greatness #inspiration #motivation