FREE Download: The Most Important Questions You MUST Ask Your Partner here: https://bit.ly/3dWyB2d FREE 4-Part Confidence Workshop: https://bit.ly/3fZcbO5 On Today's Episode: There is something called the nice girl syndrome which is an idea and expectation that you have to be nice to be loved and accepted. It leaves the mark of not feeling good enough. Being pleasant, agreeable, and accommodating doesn’t mean that you have to make yourself less than someone else. “Becoming and remaining a nice girl, is a kind of malnutrition to the soul of a woman.” -Asia Suler What happens to you when you’re always put last on your own list or lucky if you even make your own list? In this episode Lisa is channeling all of her badass energy into exposing how you can be nice and prioritize yourself and communicate your needs. You don’t have to be afraid of speaking up and worried about being rejected or thought less than by the right people in your life. Do a gut check with yourself on which one of these myths hit the hardest and come up with a plan to restore your power and balance where there is none. SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction to Nice Girl Myths 0:12 | #1 Nice Girls Aren’t Needy 8:15 | #2 Nice Girls Listen to Their Parents 21:12 | #3 Nice Girls Aren’t Rude 25:14 | #4 Nice Girls Don’t Push Back 31:02 | #5 Nice Girls Don’t Swear 31:16 | #6 Nice Girls Don’t Rattle Cages 39:12 | #7 Nice Girls Are Not Confrontational 47:11 | #8 Nice Girls Take Their Friends’ Advice 52:05 | #9 Nice Girls Don’t Show Their Emotions 1:02:46 | #10 Nice Girls Don’t Disagree 1:16:45 | 5 Biggest Myths About Love QUOTES: “There’s a big difference between being needy and having needs.” [0:40] “There should be no guilt in making that decision and then failing, even if your parents told you otherwise.” [20:48] “Sometimes it’s the fact that we don’t want to be rude that ends up being so frikin’ detrimental to us…” [21:17] “You absolutely can be nice and you can be firm; they don’t have to be separate. They can go hand in hand.” [25:49] “I can be nice, and I can say the hard frikin sh*t.” [30:01] “If you are in a cage you have to think about how you’re the one that’s gonna get yourself out.” [33:28] “You absolutely can confront someone when they’ve disrespected you and you can do it with utter frikin grace and ease.” [44:53] “If you do not address your emotions you will break.” [52:57] “If you allow your emotions to run wild, whether you like it or not, the truth frikin is that people may start to dismiss you.” [1:01:47] “You can disagree, but it doesn’t make them wrong.” [1:08:00] Follow Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu