Wondering how to best communicate with your mate? Wish you could express yourself more effectively, bypass arguments, and go straight to conflict resolution? Here's the method: Far too often we can get into a rut with our mate. We develop a certain style of fighting or arguing, and then that is our "go to" position for any disagreement. Whether your style is aggression or passivity, to walk away or to walk toward and confront, if it's not working then it's in need of revision. Resentment are the things that slowly erode and otherwise healthy love. And resentment comes from feelings that have not been expressed, and problems that have not been solved. It is when you are so exhausted by trying to explain yourself to your mate and you see there is no change on their part. Or you are so tired of hearing what they need and you are certain, you are doing your best, but whatever they need feels out of your reach. Long-term relationships require specific communication skills to get through the day-to-day challenges of life, as well as partnership. This video will assist you in how to express yourself. ---- Work with Me: https://susanwinter.net/consultation/ The Dating Games Guide: You know you're being played, but what's the game? And, what's your countermove? Not to worry. I’ve got you covered: https://susanwinter.retrieve.com/store/#/ Rough breakup? Check out: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible: http://www.audible.com/pd/Self-Development/Breakup-Triage-Audiobook/B01KOTL014/ref=a_search_c4_1_1_srImg?qid=1474051066&sr=1-1 Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Breakup-Triage-Cure-Heartache/dp/B01KOTN5AI Wondering how to benefit from life's challenges? Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life https://www.amazon.com/dp/1479176087?ref_=pe_3052080_397514860 Allowing Magnificence Audiobook- https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CY3PZKM5 The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Dating a younger man and wondering if it will last? Attracted to an older woman and not sure how to make your move? Answers to all your age gap questions: https://susanwinter.retrieve.com/store/#/bundles/older-women-and-younger-men-bundle